Children that do not listen are exhibiting a challenge to authority rather than a listening problem. Get through to your child with the assistance of a licensed psychologist in this free video.
Author: Allick Delancy
WE ALL HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO DO GREAT THINGS IN LIFE! The areas of education, psychology, motivation, behavioural coaching, management of stress, anger and conflict, has always interested Allick Delancy. For this reason, over the years he has conducted research in these fields and has experienced great success in writing, lecturing and assisting other persons to develop their fullest potentials. He has obtained a Bachelors of Science in Behavioural Sciences with an emphasis in Psychology and Sociology. Allick Delancy also earned a Masters of Arts degree in Educational Psychology, with general emphasis in Learning, Development, Testing and Research from Andrews University. He has worked in the field of community mediation, education--conducting life skills training (for students, teachers and parents), as well as conducting Functional Behavioural Assessments and developing Functional Behavioural Plans. He also lectures at the Bachelors degree level in Early Childhood and Family Studies, Leadership and Management and co-wrote an undergraduate course in social work. View all posts by Allick Delancy
No, you smack them on the butt take the legos away and let them cry. No wonder we see these teens with opositional defiant disorder. Then they end up in the psych units due to parents not smacking them when they are younger…NOT BEATING…..big difference. Kids of my generation got smacked and we also respected authority. Never knew one kid dragged out of school going to a psych unit in my school.
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Thank you for sharing a thought on this matter. Spanking can be a controversial topic, as there are so many factors contributing to whether one uses this method as a means to train a toddler, young child, preteen or teenager.
A number of behavioral and emotional issues do have a biological/biochemical contributor, but social learning plays its part as well. Children tend to learn what they pick up from their environments and then model this behavior, especially when the conditions to do so are right. A number of disorders/ disturbances where uncontrolled anger/aggression, defiance, vandalism, bullying, lack of appreciation for the laws, are manifestations for what is depicted in the media, video games, community practices etc.
Now individuals do have a choice as to whether they spank their children or not in some countries/ cities etc, but we should be guided by data or researched information.
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