PREPARING FOR ACTION

Preparing for action, to do anything that was not done before can feel like you are lifting a heavy load.  Think of any journey a person takes.

It can be one that a marathon runner takes or a trail a hiker is on.  Every single one of these people started off at a single point.

I remembered when I was attending primary school.  I could have been about seven or eight.  I had to walk to school some of the times.  My challenge was that, not that I hated walking, but I perceived the distance the school was to be too great and so, mentally I felt like it was too much a challenge.

So what did I do?

Each time I had to walk to school, will looked just about twenty feet in front of me at an object, keeping my eyes fixed on it, and certainly remembering to keep on the sidewalk.  As the object came about five feet in front of me, I will then chose another object about twenty feet into the distance.  And so it went until the final object I chose to fix my eyes on was the school.

So at the onset of looking at the various six habits, I want you to be aware that at the onset it will appear to be as gigantic steps you are making. Nonetheless I do encourage you to practice these until you have mastered all six.

For me, when I started looking at these six habits years ago, learning and applying them did not seem natural at first, at least some of them.  But I remembered each time I worked on one of them, the feeling I received.  It was the same as if I was casting my eyes on the objects along the way to school.

Eventually, when these six habits started to become part of me, it was as if they became automatic responses in my life.  For this reason I want you to challenge yourself to work on these:

  • Use the questions as a guide for your reflection. As you come to various conclusion and discoveries in your live, I want you to take note of them in a personal journal.  It is vital that your journal be at hand when reading this book and also have a pen too.

 

Feel free to also use your phone or tablet or other electronic devices for journaling your response to the questions in each activity or thought or idea that comes to you. It is of great value, when you can look back at what you wrote or thoughts you had at the time and muse over its meaning.

I know for myself, as thoughts come to me I have to write them down. While I trust my mine, and my ability to recall, sometimes with the flow of information coming to me it is not always easy to keep everything to the forefront of my mine. So I do encourage you to always have on hand that small pocket diary or electronic device to transfer thoughts or ideas as they come to you.

This will help you to become a reflective practitioner. This in turn will allow you the opportunity to put into practice what is understood to be of value to you.

  • Develop an overpowering voice. It is important that we understand ourselves. Who we are as a person, our likes and dislikes or preferences. In order to experience change it is important to develop an inherent voice spurring us on. Reminding us of the importance of a particular task or activity which can contribute to our goal.

 

This voice can be viewed as a quality or characteristic that acts as a gauge for us to know what is acceptable and what is not.

This trait, allows us to view persons and situations as opportunities and learning experiences.  And this is in spite of the situation being a positive or a negative one.

For learning to take place, sometimes it matters not if the experiences are happening to us or if we saw it happening to someone else.

What we can draw from all experiences, is what matters. This will assist us to know where we stand on a particular matter of our view of a particular event. These views or stands will help us to shape our thinking. Thinking, which would be projected in our personality and our behaviors. As such, we develop a voice in our heads as to how we ought to behave in order to receive a certain result.

  • Know you have a choice. As you prepare for action to make the changes in your life, and to develop habits which can promote your success, know that you have made this choice to change. Not only knowing or understanding this, especially when times get rough, but knowing that you made a deliberate effort to become better.

 

Knowing that it is your decision too, will assist you to safeguard your emotion should you perceive that you are the only one on this part the self-development. Additionally, knowing that you have taken an initiative to go after a dream, should also be a driving force for you. This means that you are capable of starting something. This means that you have looked at your life, made an evaluation and determined that what you are experiencing was not good enough. As such, you had to make a transformation or personal growth.

So by preparing for action, know that you have it within you to make a difference in your life and in the lives of others. Reading this book for instance is an indication that you have already started on the road to transforming yourself.

  • Examine your current beliefs. It is always a good idea to look at what your present understanding or beliefs are when it comes to success. This will help you to evaluate what you think to be possible as well as help you to have a clear view of your true talents, potential, or willingness to work towards achieving this particular goal.

 

Some persons may want to achieve in the area of small business, art and craft, or maybe in the area of athletics but even before starting their current beliefs already predisposes them to fail.

This failure would then bring frustration which in turn may affect their self-esteem.

As such, there are some individuals who would not even try again at what they may have had a passion for at first. So this calls for some self reflection. Look at what you deem to be true about yourself, not based on what others may believe, but at what you are actually able to do.

It is true that in some instances it is only by doing something we’re capable of recognizing our true potential. Know that our belief systems can affect emotions and our physical. And these in turn our thoughts; if they are positive can fuel us with enthusiasm. If they are negative on the other hand we can feel stressed and wanting to give up, especially when at times get tough.

  • Protect your time to work on you. In preparing to take any action either great or small, that will require time.

 

There many individuals who, at the beginning of the year or some. In their life may create great plans for themselves. And this is encouraged. For plans can get us from where we are to where we want to be. But the thing is, and this is very vital, we must see that to become better at anything, be it parenting, painting, being a better husband or wife, time is needed.

We need to make the time to work on ourselves or our craft. It is important that we experiment with time periods during the day that we would be more effective. At these time periods we want to work when our energy levels are at the highest, and when there are fewer distractions. Therefore, this is the reason why you need to protect the time for you to work on you.

Now, I am not saying that you should be so rigid, that if your child or family member for sick and needs to go to the hospital, but this is the time you carve out for yourself then you neglect them. No! This is not what I am saying at all. But we need to respect that it is only because of time, that we are able to put forth efforts and energies on practicing the thing that pushes us closer to our goal.

Knowing Yourself: Gaining Understanding And Promoting Your Potential For Greatness.

Gain accurate understanding of yourself through the process of reflection. (2)

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We all have the potential to move towards excellence in life. You can reach to the point of what is possible for you this year. The secret is to build a strong foundation in your mind and build from there with action. So where do you start? You start with your awareness, which comes from reflection. As you become more aware of yourself, you will see areas to improve on in your life, thus increasing success for you. This book will help you to do so.
Table of Contents:

Introduction
The Essence of Who You Are.
The Question Of, Who Am I?
The Mind and You.
I. Questions for Reflection.
II. Questions for Reflection.
Reflection for Improvement.
Distractions and losing yourself.
III. Questions for Reflection.
Using Data to Make Decisions.
Maintain in spite of challenges.
Conclusion

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Parenting Guide: Effective Disciplinary Strategies.

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To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once in a while. ~Josh Billings

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Table of Contents
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Getting started.
Discipline and its objective.
Areas warranting discipline.
How to offer discipline.
Case study.
Six (6) don’ts.
3 things to try…
Conclusion

Parenting Guide: Effective disciplinary strategies…

To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once in a while. ~Josh Billings
Parenting Guide: Effective disciplinary strategies…
Are you tired of seeing so many children out of control?
You now have new ideas to assist in effectively disciplining your children and have them love you for it!!!
The goal of this book is to present a number of strategies to successfully, offer discipline. New parents or guardians, or those who have been parents for some time now, can also benefit from the information discussed in this book.

Table of Contents
Introduction
Getting started.
Discipline and its objective.
Areas warranting discipline.
How to offer discipline.
Case study.
Six (6) don’ts.
3 things to try…
Conclusion

 

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Freeday Tuesday

Delancy, A. (2015). Success Secrets Revealed: Quickly Planning Your Dreams And Living A Happier Life.

http://www.amazon.com/Success-Secrets-Revealed-Developing-productivity-ebook/dp/B00YFZOHDC/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1438656738&sr=1-1&keywords=allick+delancy
In my early teenage years, I really took off with writing; recording my plans for the future. I could remember reading a book that encouraged the readers to become a friend of writing; writing down what you plan to achieve in the short and long term in life. So for me, writing was going to be my new companion. And so, I remembered loving to record everything as it pertained to my career path, academic journey, places I wanted to visit, how much money I thought I could possibly make, the age to get married and so on. I just put it all down on paper.
What I was doing, was journaling my thoughts as it pertained to the ideas I had in my mind. The great thing about journaling is that you can return to the written or typed material at any time, to make additions or deletions as the case may be.

Freeday Tuesday

Delancy, A. (2015). Success Secrets Revealed: Quickly Planning Your Dreams And Living A Happier Life.

http://www.amazon.com/Success-Secrets-Revealed-Developing-productivity-ebook/dp/B00YFZOHDC/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1438656738&sr=1-1&keywords=allick+delancy
Keep in mind, that what makes you successful first, must be the value or the appreciation you have of yourself. Material things may come, with persistence and attention paid to your talents, abilities or skill. Knowledge will come, as you examine your thinking of what you know and what you aspire to comprehend. Knowledge will also come your way, as you read and learn from those who are more informed on subject matter than you are. But firstly, as Maya Angelou once said, “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it”. This can be achieved once you take the time to examine your thinking.

Freeday Tuesday

Delancy, A. (2015). Success Secrets Revealed: Quickly Planning Your Dreams And Living A Happier Life.

http://www.amazon.com/Success-Secrets-Revealed-Developing-productivity-ebook/dp/B00YFZOHDC/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1438656738&sr=1-1&keywords=allick+delancy

Take some time to examine who
you are for a moment and what
you want to become.